Want Tied or Commitment Phobia

Most couples undergoing stable relationship requires a commitment to continue the claim has not become more serious relationship. The reason, not because of fear of commitment but rather to enjoy the freedom and keep open the opportunity to tease others.

This reason also that often become the single trick. They want complete freedom and still want adventure. Is this true?

There are some questions to test the commitment of the spouses before heading into a long term relationship as quoted from Yourtango.

1. Are you always looking for reasons to be critical of your spouse or relationship that you live now?

2. Do you really need a private space so that it looks selfish?

3. Are you in touch with people who are not too well with you?

4. Do you base a relationship on physical attraction alone?

5. Are you always looking for ways to end the relationship or to escape when the relationship enters a more serious stage?

6. Telling the truth at an ideal partner that your relationship is too complicated or too busy pursuing a career?

7. Set the standard pair that is too high?

8. Are you showing signs of fear of commitment in other aspects in life than love affair?

9. You feel the fear of experiencing a divorce or problems like your parents?

10. Are you experiencing abuse in your childhood?

11. Whether you have never apologized to the couple though guilty?

12. Do you have a broken heart after having a romantic relationship in the past?

If the answers to some of the above questions is yes, then it likely means you are commitment phobic. After realizing that you have a phobia in a more serious relationship, remember that this is not a deliberate reluctance.

Driven action you take from the subconscious fear that choosing a mate who did not fit. Even if the meet and establish love with the right people, you hurt him more often so that the relationship broke up and did not progress to a serious relationship. As a result, you are more often alone and lonely.

To fix this, need to ask yourself and learn more about the underlying reasons for phobias and what you want.

This is useful when you are entering new relationships and maintaining those relationships to a more serious level. Tell your partner and try to cure your phobia, in order to have a decent and healthy relationships.

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Type man Inappropriate So Beloved

Indeed there is no perfect man. However, that does not mean women can not get the best men in her life. What is needed is to selectively choose the male idol for a happy and lasting relationship.

So no one chose a partner, consider following a number of unsavory characters that tend to trigger problems in the relationship, as quoted from the Shine:

1. Children's Mama
Actually very proud to know that you're dating partner is a figure that is close to his mother. This may be an indication that you can appreciate your lover like a woman
true.

But, the type of this kind tend to be tough guy out of the role his mother. In fact, not infrequently more spare time for the mother than her partner. Other negative effects, it also tends to easily compare the character of her partner with her mother. Avoid these men, because shadows mother would make it difficult to see and accept the presence of a partner wisely.

2. Feeling the smartest
This man always thinks he knows everything. Always considered himself the right. He's always correcting you in front of others. Arguing with him is futile because whatever topic he will position you as a fool. Obviously, this guy will make you physically tired and your mind.

3. Overprotective
It would be very annoying if your loved one is too worried about you. Imagine if your lover is calling you every hour to check on you. You will feel the loss of freedom.

4. Men not confident
Undeniably, confidence is sexy characteristics of both men and women. Guaranteed, you will 'melt' when dealing with a man who is capable of displaying a full-confident figure.

Would be different if you're dealing with a man who is always humble. You tend to find men who do not have confidence as a highly tedious.

5. Jealous guy
If you have a relationship type guy like this, be careful. His jealousy will always appear whatever the problem, even able to change a good thing becomes bad in a fast time.

Maybe you've considered reasonable if you are a jealous lover. You are wrong! Excessive jealousy will make you live like in jail. Eventually he set up anyone who may be friends with you, and anyone who can speak with you.

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Men bitchy More Attractive To Women

In winning the hearts of women, men do not have a faint smile was sweet. That's because women are far more attracted to men who are bitchy, moody and mysterious than the guy looks gay.

That is the findings of a study conducted by a team from the University of British Columbia, Canada. Researchers uncover, cheerful man just does not show masculine strength or attitude. But in contrast, men actually like women who are gay.

This is because men prefer women who are approachable and tractable. Research conducted by psychologists, the tendency of men to see the behavior change and update your profile picture on a dating site.

"Shows the happy face is considered important for the social interactions including sex appeal. But the study found women and men respond differently emotional expressions, including smile," says Jessica Tracy, chief researcher, as quoted by the Telegraph.co.uk.

"We found that the woman was not too interested in jovial man with a happy face. Instead they prefer men who look powerful and bleak," he said.

Meanwhile, men are more sexually attracted to women who seemed happy. Or, at least looking proud and confident. The study involved 1,000 adults who were asked to rank the value of the hundreds of photographs of the opposite sex. The photos were made up of various facial expressions of happiness. Starting from the wide smile, his head lifted, until the eyes are wide.

One of the researchers, Professor Tracy reveals that the study found, the attraction is formed by a process of evolution and culture. For example, evolutionary theory, women tend to be attracted to men who have prestige, status, and competent as a couple and produce offspring. He also explained that the smile is also associated with the image of the lack of male dominance.

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